A few on Jeske's list?
You can either play the music throughout the room, or take a cue from Christian Grey and place iPod ear buds in your partners ears, so only she can hear the music.
Advertisement - Continue Reading Below, first, we learned that it's hard and that's normal.
"When people feel like they have to do it right, they stop taking risks.
I was no longer hyper-aware of the sounds my curvy body was making.
If you want something even more adventurous, you could try a spinning sex swing.
And for a whole year, save for being parted by travel or the stomach flu, we had sex with each other.